Blogger Tosin Silverdam recently sparked attention with an emotionally charged social media post, calling out his ex-lover, Praize, for allegedly fostering relationships with his close friends in what he described as an apparent act of spite.
In the post, Tosin expressed frustration over Praize’s actions, which he believes have persisted for over seven years since their breakup.
He accused Praize of deliberately building close connections with his inner circle, including his then-flatmate and best friend, Bidemi, and later, his closest friend at the time, Oma.
Tosin shared that his fallout with Bidemi resulted from Praize inserting themselves into the friendship, ultimately causing a rift.
“When you and Bidemi weren’t close anymore, you abandoned her,” Tosin wrote, adding that Praize then focused on Oma, creating similar tensions.
Tosin painted a vivid picture of his once-tight bond with Oma, describing their friendship as inseparable.
However, he noted that things changed when Praize began spending significant time with Oma, even bringing her boyfriend to hang out with them.
Tosin claimed that Oma’s newfound closeness with Praize caused problems between him and Oma, leading to the eventual dissolution of their friendship.
“You used Oma to spite me so bad to the extent that we started having issues,” Tosin alleged.
He further accused Praize of strategically cutting off Oma once their relationship soured, only to move on to yet another one of his friends.
According to Tosin, Praize is now spending time with his personal stylist and two other close friends, hanging out with them and attending events together.
Tosin expressed dismay at how Praize allegedly disregards him at these events, despite their proximity.
“I’ve greeted you twice at events, and you ignored me, but you keep befriending my closest friends,” he lamented.
The blogger admitted to feeling betrayed, especially after one of his friends recently invited Praize to an event without informing him.
The shock of seeing Praize at the gathering prompted Tosin to question the intentions behind their actions.
“What is this person looking for?” Tosin asked, venting his frustration over the continuous interactions with his friends.
He admitted that the recurring situation has left him feeling disrespected by both Praize and the friends who welcome their presence.
The post also touched on the emotional toll the situation has taken on Tosin.
He revealed that he has tried to move on from the past but feels that Praize’s actions are preventing him from doing so.
“You haven’t healed. I don’t love you anymore, neither do I hate you. It’s been seven years, for God’s sake,” Tosin wrote passionately.
He questioned whether his ex-lover’s behavior stemmed from unresolved feelings or a deliberate attempt to provoke him.
Tosin also reflected on their past relationship, acknowledging that mistakes were made on both sides.
However, he accused Praize of gaslighting him and failing to take responsibility for their part in the fallout.
Despite the raw emotions expressed in the post, Tosin concluded on a reflective note, emphasizing his personal growth and determination to move forward.
“Thank God for the growth in my life,” he wrote, signaling his desire to leave the situation behind.
The post has since ignited discussions online, with fans and followers weighing in on the drama.
Some sympathized with Tosin, commending his courage for speaking out, while others urged him to fully let go of the past and focus on his future.
The situation highlights the complexities of post-breakup dynamics and the challenges of navigating shared social circles.
For Tosin, this public call-out appears to be a cathartic step toward closure, though it remains unclear how Praize or the mutual friends involved will respond to the allegations.
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